Dating lost spark
Brian lives in Bedford and, in my view, any city without two opera houses isn't worth living in.
We did find a shared love of cooking and food during our lesson though, and my impression of Brian after our first date is that he's nice, if a bit shy. But I'm worried we might run out of things to talk about, and I'm not sure I could ever find him physically exciting.
It is human nature to highly value a new love interest and to treat that person with great care and respect.
Unfortunately, it is human nature to become complacent and to take people for granted as time passes.
The truth is, you can sustain tackling-you-over-the-furniture passion for a lifetime. You throw your cards on the table to honor who you are and ask for what you really want. Commit to working on your sex life the way you do any other area of your growth, such as nutrition, health or fitness. Even though you're a couple, you still need time and space to pursue those things which feed you as an individual.
So let’s break down exactly what feeling ‘Fuck Yes’ really means. But it isn’t always that simple, and guys in particular sometimes have a hard time, dragged down by unrealistic expectations and sky-high standards.
They don’t have to be the most beautiful creature you’ve ever laid eyes on, or be flawless, or even be better looking than your exes.
Sure, long-term the physical attraction is less important than the mental and emotional stuff, and there’s no guarantee it’ll last, but you really want to have something here to get going with.
Writing for an audience of male 20-somethings, I suspect you won’t take much convincing on this one anyway.